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Aug. 21st, 2009 @ 05:48 pm Heterosexism is sooooooooo last century!
Soulforce is a social justice organization whose purpose, as explained in their Vision Statement, "...is freedom for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance."

I've been on their email list for a while & today I got another email from them. In the email, the executive director of Soulforce, Jeff Lutes, references a new report from the American Psychological Association that suggests to psychologists not to advise their patients that, with professional assistance, same-sex attracted people can change their inborn sexual orientation.

Mr. Lutes also talks about society's built-in heterosexism which promotes the idea anyone not strictly heterosexual is inherently less and/or in need of fixing. I think his email is pretty interesting & brings up a lot of good points.

I hope you get a chance to check behind the cut & read the email he sent out today. Maybe it'll get you thinking about heterosexism & the potential (and even actual & continuing) damage that can (and is) being foisted upon those of us who are not exclusively opposite-sex attracted, just as unchecked racism & sexism in society work against everyone who is not a straight, white male.

Two weeks ago a task force from the American Psychological Association released a ground breaking report after a two year analysis of the research on sexual orientation change efforts. Based on a rigorous review of 83 studies conducted between 1960 and 2007, the APA advised psychologists to avoid telling their clients that therapy or other treatments can change them from gay to straight.

Not surprisingly, NARTH (National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality), Exodus International, and a slew of other religious groups immediately denounced the APA report. They claimed, as they so often do, that any research affirming the goodness and wholeness of queer people is bogus and only their twisted belief that we are sick, sinful, and second-class (and therefore in need of “change”) has any credibility.

In my view, the conversation about whether gays can change is a distraction from the much more important question; which is "Why do those in power encourage change in the first place?" The answer, of course, is the rampant heterosexism that infuses nearly every aspect of our culture.

Heterosexism is a system of attitudes, behaviors, and practices that subordinate queer people on the basis of their sexual orientation. In the same way that racism keeps whites in power over people of color and sexism keeps women subordinate to men, heterosexism keeps those who are straight dominant over those who are not. Heterosexism is the prejudice that only heterosexuality is normative, combined with the power to enforce that privilege across every spectrum of society. Heterosexism is advanced by nearly every tune on the radio, sitcom and commercial on television, print ad in the newspaper, film at the box office, and institutional policy within our government and work place. In innumerable ways each day, our society idealizes straightness and ignores or devalues the existence of any person or family who identifies otherwise.

When was the last time you heard a debate about whether therapy and prayer can change a straight person to gay?

I believe “change”, “repair”, and “conversion” are indeed possible. Millions of people have changed their minds and now believe that lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender citizens deserve full equality under the law. A growing number of churches have repaired their previously broken theology and now welcome and affirm everyone in their congregations. Slowly, the religious denominations that create and enforce church doctrine are undergoing a conversion in their understanding of LGBTQ people (let’s hope the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America undergoes such a conversion this week).

But the only way things change is if you and I are willing to be “anti” so that no one ever again has to be “ex.” Focusing on the work of anti-heterosexism (undoing the notion that straightness is superior and preferable) undermines the toxic belief system that encourages so many to waste thousands of dollars and precious years trying to become "ex-gay" in therapies and programs that end up doing more harm than good.

So, I’m proud of Soulforce, Beyond Ex-Gay, Truth Wins Out, Equality Florida, and the National Black Justice Coalition for coming together to sponsor the 2009 Anti-Heterosexism Conference in West Palm Beach, Florida (November 20-22, 2009) during the same weekend and in the same city where NARTH will hold its annual conference. Early registration begins today at www.anti-heterosexismconference.org and the conference features powerful keynotes by Dr. Sylvia Rhue, Dr. Jack Drescher, and Rev. Deborah Johnson, plus an exciting line-up of concurrent workshops that will be announced in September.

It’s our moral obligation to be “anti” and resist, oppose, and prevent the systems of power that oppress and discriminate. Join us this November in West Palm Beach as together we learn effective tools for undoing heterosexism in communities across the globe.

Warning: At this conference, you will most likely change . . . into your bathing suit!

Hope to see you there,

Jeff Lutes, MS, LPC
Executive Director,
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Date:August 22nd, 2009 01:22 pm (UTC)
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A gay rights conference in West Palm Beach? Bold action indeed!
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Date:August 22nd, 2009 02:10 pm (UTC)
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Funny, I thought the same thing! :-)

Well, at least most of the participants will already know their way around town...some of them can probably walk or(probably more realistically, rollerblade) to the conference.

Having lived in the Sunshine State for nearly 30 years now, my experience has been that outside the "gay enclave" of southeastern Florida (i.e., Key West, Miami-Dade, Broward & Palm Beach counties), the sun doesn't necessarily shine so brightly for us queers (with maybe the exception of Orlando--near where I live--and a couple of other larger-sized towns).

Though located in politically-conservative northern & north central Florida, I've heard tell that Tallahassee & Gainesville are "secretly" more gay-friendly than you'd think.

And, of course, our governor, Charlie Crist is not gay...nope...not one little bit...absolutely hetero...always has been...not a gay bone in his body...straight as an arrow...really...truly...not gay in the slightest...